Why I Love: My Dad

The man, the legend (click to enlarge).

IT’S HIS CONTAGIOUS JOIE DE vivre. It’s his insistence that I watched Sgt. Bilko, Jack Benny and Ernie Kovacs reruns with him when I was a kid. It’s the skiing memories. (It’s also the memories of the Plymouth, New Hampshire diner he used to own.) It’s his contagious menschlichkeit. It’s his liberal use of Yiddish. It’s his generosity. It’s the way that, though I am 58 and he turns 84 today, he insists on always looking after me. It’s his delight in food, both cooking and eating it. It’s that he taught me right from wrong. It’s his didactic-without-being-didacticness. It’s his instilled-in-me restaurant practice of ordering whatever’s unfamiliar on the menu. It’s the way he dawdles in grocery stores, always checking out unfamiliar prices / goods / services. It’s his delight in the Game of Thrift. It’s that he can’t pass a restaurant without examining the outside-posted menu. It’s his contagious neophilia. It’s that he’s been making the same turkey stuffing every Thanksgiving since I was a tyke. It’s the way he respects my religiousness. It’s his love of hiking unfamiliar territory both metaphorical and geographical. It’s that we’ve learned to be silent together and just enjoy each other’s company. And it’s that he actually reads my blog. Happy birthday, Dad.

4 comments for “Why I Love: My Dad

  1. Betty
    2020.05.14 at 0620

    What a beautiful tribute. You are indeed a very fortunate young man in many ways, especially to still have your father. Thank you for sharing and Happy Birthday to your dad. I met him rather briefly once when y’all made a trip to Ryan’s and Molly’s. I have forgotten the occasion or why he was visiting you but it was special that you and Ann brought him to Hercules.

    • 2020.05.14 at 1129

      I think it was just that one of his too-short, annual visits coincided with a(nother) family event; the opportunity was too good to pass up!

  2. Dad
    2020.05.14 at 0643

    What can I say. You and Susan are the light of my life. We’ve had our ups and downs but always respected each other’s decisions. The physical distance has never diminished my love for you. You are in my thoughts every day of my life. Now get outa here ya big knucklehead.
    Love ya long time. Captain Eera.❣

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